Frequently Asked Questions
Many people have questions that they may or may not
feel comfortable asking their funeral director. We hope this will
be of some help to you and if you think of something else you would
like us to add to this list of questions, please contact us by
email or telephone.
WHAT DO WE DO IF OUR FAMILY DEATH OCCURS AWAY
FROM HOME? Our funeral home staff will arrange with
another funeral home or mortuary, where the death occurred, to have
preparation and transportation made back to our funeral home. We
can also help you if you are planning to have a service prior to
having the family member returned to your home area.
WHY IS A FUNERAL IMPORTANT?
For thousands of years, funerals have allowed survivors to
express their feelings about the death of someone they love. The
rituals provide comfort when things seem chaotic and out of
control. The funeral is for expressing intense grief. For many, a
visitation followed by a funeral or memorial service is the first
step in the grieving process. It is a time when friends, family and
other guests can come together to grieve openly and to support one
another in a community environment. It is also a time to say
good-bye. Viewing the deceased can bring a sense of closure to the
bereaved who may be in shock and denial.
WHAT DOES A FUNERAL DIRECTOR DO?
- Pick up the deceased and transport the body to the
funeral home (anytime day or night)
- Notify proper authorities, family and/or
relatives
- Arrange and prepare death certificates
- Provide certified copies of death certificates for
insurance and benefit processing
- Work with the insurance agent, social security or
Veteran''s Administration to ensure that necessary paperwork is
filed for receipt of benefits
- Prepare and submit obituary to the newspapers of
your choice
- Bathe and embalm the deceased body, if
necessary
- Prepare the body for viewing including dressing
and cosmetizing
- Assist the family with funeral arrangements and
purchase of casket, urn, burial vault and cemetery plot
- Schedule the opening and closing of the grave with
cemetery personnel, if a burial is to be performed
- Coordinate with clergy if a funeral or memorial
service is to be held
- Arrange a police escort and transportation to the
funeral and/or cemetery for the family
- Order funeral sprays and other flower arrangements as the
family wishes
- Provide Aftercare, or grief assistance, to the
bereaved
WHAT IS EMBALMING? It is a
process that sanitizes and preserves a dead body. It delays the
decomposition process and allows time for viewing and services by
the family prior to burial or cremation. It restores a life-like
appearance to the body and can enhance the appearance of a body
that has undergone a traumatic death or illness. This process can
take anywhere from one to three hours to perform. The time spent
embalming depends upon the severity of damage to the body, whether
it be from traumatic injuries and or by not being able to perform
it immediately after notification of the death.
IS EMBALMING REQUIRED WHEN A PERSON
DIES? No, however most states insist on embalming
under certain circumstances such as when the death is caused by a
contagious disease or if final disposition isn''t made within a
certain time frame. Embalming preserves the body, often allowing
more time for arrangements. It is required if there will be a
visitation. If the deceased is to be directly buried or cremated,
embalming is not necessary.
WHY SHOULD I BUY MY CASKET OR CREMATION
CONTAINER FROM YOUR FUNERAL HOME INSTEAD OF A CASKET OR CREMATION
DISCOUNT STORE? The casket and cremation discount stores
do not have a history of longevity in the business. Several people
have purchased units from these stores and before they know it,
these stores are out of business within a year or so after the
purchase. Because of their short lived existance, many people who
have purchased products have ended up with no product to have for
their respective service. Casket and cremation retail stores also
have limited suppliers for merchandise, therefore on some units,
they do not carry any liability agreement on units that may have
already been purchased by the family. We purchase our fine quality
products from reputable casket and cremation companies who have
been in the business for many years. Their products all come with a
liability warranty attached on each unit. With cost being very
important to the consumer, most all funeral homes are able to sell
merchandise at a lesser price than a retail store, as they have
other income to offset their overhead.
IF I CHOOSE TO BE CREMATED, CAN I HAVE A
FUNERAL? Yes, cremation can take place either before or
after a funeral depending on what type of service you choose. You
can have a viewing, funeral/memorial service or burial.